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How to Make Him Miss You!

by | October 16th 2018 | 9 comments

It isn’t always easy to be in man’s thoughts and make him begin to miss you. Many woman wonder about how to know whether or not he’s interested, and try to get a positive reaction from him, but not all of them do it properly. They make mistakes and make their “target” want to put more distance between them. Learning how to make him miss you is in fact a very good idea when you’re beginning a relationship or beginning the seduction phase. In truth, this is how you’re going to find about how he truly feels about you and make him become completely addicted to you.

That said, when you are wondering about how to make him miss you, there are certain rules that you need to follow. You are also going to have to follow advice directly related to the “Chase me and I’ll run technique.” The goal is to be at the very forefront of his mind. In doing so, you will quickly notice how the feeling of missing someone can reinforce love and develop attraction.

I am going to explain the three main rules for making a guy miss you. Let’s get started right away so that I can reveal these important steps to you!How to make a guy miss you

How to make him miss you

1. Let him take the initiative
2. Don’t let him think he has you too soon
3. Don’t say yes to him every time he proposes something
4. Make him feel like he can’t live without you
5. Make the time you spend together amazing so he wants to have you around more

If you can follow these five steps, it is highly likely that you’re going to make him miss you and make his feelings for your increase so much that he ends up falling head over heels in love with you.

Why exactly should you make a guy miss you?

Ever since I started doing this in 2007, I’ve noticed that most women tend to have a lack of self confidence, whether it’s in their relationships or when they’re in the seduction phase. They aren’t sure if the guy they like is sincerely interested or if he’s just flirting or playing games… Not to mention the fact that there are so many clichés about men being unfaithful that it becomes quite hard to trust someone.

Sometimes, he’s not going to think that he wants a serious relationship with you right off the bat. It’s up to you to encourage him to invest so the best thing to do is to show him that life is considerably better with you in it. In order to know how to proceed, you have to ask yourself one thing: How do I make him miss me?

Not only do you feel the need to be reassured so that you can feel satisfied in your relationship, you also want to keep him and make your love story continue to evolve. This is why learning how to get him to miss you can prove to be a real solution. On top of being sure about his feelings for you, you can also multiply them tenfold.

You want to be the only girl he thinks about all day long and you are completely right to use this method in order to reach your goal. If you read my articles on male psychology, you know that being a bit distant and inaccessible can make you even more attractive in the eyes of men. You instantly become an attractive challenge. You just need to know how to go about doing this…

How to make a man miss you: The 3 best techniques

I briefly wanted to talk about the three main techniques for getting him to miss you, but there are many more that I discuss in detail in my book, Love Coach Confidence. Even just by applying these three tips you’re going to see spectacular results. When you are able to get him to miss you, you switchHow to Make Him Miss You up the power play between you and make his feelings for you develop much faster.

Here are the 3 rules to follow when you want to know the answer to “How to make him miss me

Rule #1: Stop contacting the man you want to seduce!

This is one of the most common mistakes that women unfortunately make. Ladies, you tend to cling to the guy you’re with, or if you’re still in the seduction phase, you tend to be a bit too present. You don’t allow for space between you that could give rise to his feelings of missing you. If you really want to know that he’s missing you, you absolutely have to contact him less.

Simply put, the less present you are, the more he is going to miss you. Think about it this way: if you don’t give him the opportunity, how is he supposed to miss you…? The more a woman pulls away or feels inaccessible to a man, the more likely he is to try and get closer to her – I’m sure you’ve probably already seen this phenomenon when it comes to flirtation… If you’re not the one who makes the first move, he’s going to have to be the one who calls you… and what’s more, you’ll be on his mind!

One of the techniques that works the best when it comes to getting an ex back is Radio Silence, and if you’re not familiar with it I suggest you read this right away so that you can find everything you need to know. It’s all about cutting contact with your ex in order to make them want you back. By adapting this tool to your current situation, you’ll be able to make him miss you while making him fall for you.

Rule #2: Make him miss you by making him feel like he can’t live without you

If you want this guy to see that you’re something special and remain in the forefront of his mind, make him feel that he can’t live without you!

Be the one that is unlike everyone else. I’m not just talking about the physical aspect – even if you should take care of your body and your image! The center of your focus should be on the sentimental aspect. Focus on the relationships that you have to develop on a daily basis. If you respect these guidelines, he’s going to see you as a real femme fatale and he will fall in love with your personality.

By the way, don’t neglect important elements like communication when you want to form a solid relationship. Though I admit that it isn’t their strong suit, men like it when women hear them out. Be the one that he is able to turn to so that you can reinforce the complicity and feelings between you.

By doing so, the idea of not having you around is going to make him want to get closer to you. In challenging moments you have to be there for him.

Rule #3: How to make him miss you more? Don’t underestimate the power of memories!

One of the best ways to make him miss you is to ensure that the time you spend together is unforgettable. On top of enjoying your time together, you’re also making very positive memories together that can help build your relationship and make him miss you, even when you’re far.

Have you ever found yourself smiling while at work, just because you were thinking about a special moment that you shared with the person that you love?
I think it’s safe to say that we’ve all experienced this!

At that moment there’s only one thing on your mind: seeing him again and experiencing that joy again. Keep this in mind when you want to make him miss you. By sharing and discovering new activities together, you’ll build a solid relationship and create wonderful memories. Memories like these are going to be of upmost importance if you want to contrast a long lasting love story. Don’t hesitate to take the initiative and transform your free time into a way to solidify your relationship.

Best wishes,
Your coach for knowing how to make him miss you,


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    Hi Alex, I have a question on this how to make him miss you article. My boyfriend and I are going through a hard time and I am not sleeping in the same room with him. He asked for space. How long should I give him this space because I do want him to miss me?

    • Alex Cormont

      Erika, it’s not about time but actions. What will you do to make him feel attracted again? I need more detail, why don’t you book a coaching session? We can talk and prepare the plan together!

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    Hi, Alex I am glad I came across your article. My boyfriend and I had a little miss understanding which we resolved after making up, a day later her started avoiding me, doesn’t pick or reply my call and messages when I insisted on knowing what was going on he said it was not about me and didn’t want to share. We have not be in contact for almost a week now and it is driving me crazy cos he seems fine on social media what do I do please.

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      Hi Alex I am Gold
      I’m glad I came through your article.
      I and my boyfriend had a little misunderstanding and I broke up with him but he later apologized and I didn’t forgive him, I ignore his calls, text, but later I realized I’m at fault I now try to explain to him and apologize.
      So presently he’s acting somehow, ignoring me, so I’m just confused and I don’t want to lose him.

    • Alex Cormont

      Hi Gold,
      Thank you for reading my blog about how to make him miss you. Give this some time and then try and send him an email talking about what you did wrong and how you’ve changed and what you’ve recognized and how you grew from this situation. I hope this helps and thanks for reading my blog about how to make him miss you!

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    Thanks for the advice it will diffenetly me in my relationship

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    I want him in my life. Sometimes he want to talk with me on my phone but he don’t want me in his life. So what can I do

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    Hi Alex im Connie my ex name is noel the reverse of my last name
    leoni is this coincidence after 22!years i have change to talk him in linkedin i say sorry for what i did i taught he doesn’t love media i give up our relationship n got married to other man now i’m widow n he is married so we become friends through text he live in other country morning i live in other side of the country evening so we are busy in our own life now he don’t reply for a monthl do i need to stop texting him


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