Comments on: Why He Won’t Commit And What You Can Do To Make Him Want To Invest!

By: Zainab

Zainab — Sun, 08 Dec 2019 21:26:34 +0000

Hello Alex thank you am learning a lot now i am going pull back and let him chase me thanks

By: Anna

Anna — Tue, 01 Oct 2019 08:44:53 +0000

In reply to Vane.

Hey Alex. I love your French accent. We broke up after a short term relationship because he was ghosting for days and coming back saying that he needed time. We had lots of arguments. I pressed him a bit to meet me for a face to face break up but after our break up(=a cool conversation, no fights) I didn’t do anything to change his mind.(begging or calling texting crying etc). So, He told me to stay friends and now he is cold with me. Do I need to stay friendly (I send a couple of texts a week/friendly texts about his studies for example ) or to ignore him? The last time he didn’t respond to me.
I’m too beautiful to wait for him forever but I would give a second chance in this case.

By: Vivian

Vivian — Tue, 17 Sep 2019 16:48:16 +0000

In reply to Chavelle. Hey Alex, thank you so much, i wish i knew all this earlier... Thanks alot.

By: no matter

no matter — Sun, 15 Sep 2019 00:40:40 +0000

So my man in question seems to be addicted to a pattern of pushing me away, scratch him self back in like a hungry cat, great passion and love declarations and then stab me in the back again with a different excuse each time, to start over the whole cycle. It is like living in a soap opera. I got addicted my self to the passion part and easily admit that. And the excuses are verified, real and genuine: big ones like his divorce and legal issues, his father passed away, his little boy etc. And now after over 3 years of all that he is so sick of things that anyone can understand he is deadly afraid of taking on the responsibilities of a relationship, being a good partner, son in law, brother in law and all that. I saw that coming… yet here I am…. I believe he deeply loves me and all that you are saying Alex and tried to disappear fro his life but he won’t let that happen. It seems I’m his rock or battery charger, he won’t rest until he got even and only as little as a hug. After 4 years took my stand and he asked me: “do I really have to let you go if I don’t want all the responsibilities of a relationship?” He said it in that precise order of words and i told him Yes. So mr. Alex, what is he saying here other then the obvious? For now he is extremely busy trying to stretch and stretch yet again without finishing the conversation. I don’t doubt for a second he will drop by again within a week.

By: Sana khan

Sana khan — Sat, 31 Aug 2019 17:47:54 +0000

Hello alex i am from india my name is sana and i am really feeling to die i dont know what to do everytime i get hurt there is lot of family and society pressure for marrige and a man whom i love he is saying i dont want to do marrige right now i feel lonely and

By: Ratinder Kaur

Ratinder Kaur — Fri, 30 Aug 2019 15:25:31 +0000

Respected Sir .I know you are busy but sir I’m constantly sending you the mail at ur Gmail without any reply from your side . This is the 3rd one . Along to that sir I also purchased coaching sessions n mailed you to schedule the timing . but without any reply from your side .Sir please let me know in regard to the same . waiting for your reply n message sir . lots of regards . Take good care n always stay blessed and happy .lots of regards .

By: Ratinder Kaur

Ratinder Kaur — Sun, 25 Aug 2019 13:50:19 +0000

In reply to Mae. Hi

By: Ratinder Kaur

Ratinder Kaur — Thu, 22 Aug 2019 08:35:36 +0000

Hello dear sir
Hope I’m not disturbing you .Sir lots of thanks for this article “Man and commitment” . it’s really good one as always .This topic is most complex ,talked than to say .There is a constant battle going on in his head n heart ,where head wins .99percent of man feel to stay away from the commitment as they feel things get screwed in commitment.
On the other hand girls /ladies tend to carried by emotions n love giving their man chances to improve even when they have an inkling that things are not going right.As man’s sugar coated sweet toffee words can’t be relied on right emotions, approach n pers pective is needed by being normal with them till their true intentions come to limelight ,else it leads to dependency or power to them.
Though man don’t like to commit easily but fear of loss is one of the most motivating factor into commitment .,as they don’t realize what they have lost until they can’t see it again . knowing the value n worth of person with time give them the wake up call when they have to live their lives without them in it . They access the loss even they try to act normal hiding their emotions.They finally have to accept that she is “the moon of their happiness.”
Continue efforts from time to time is required to keep the man hooked to their commitment.Sir I hope you like the matter , but please do let me know if n where I’m wrong and what you would like to suggest me . looking forward to your reply and message sir along with working together in the near future . thanks once again for everything .Sir keep up your glorious path to success n happiness with smiles all the way . wishing you the bestest always sir . lots of love n regards .

By: Mae

Mae — Wed, 21 Aug 2019 16:13:59 +0000

Thank you for this article, Alex. As with your other articles, I have certainly taken the advantage of following your advices and they have worked more on making me realize that I should not forget to constantly have a healthy and happy lifestyle that makes ME happy. I know I have always been insecure and I think that’s the biggest factor with me when it comes to having failed relationships. I am in a quite confusing relationship now as we haven’t had “the talk” and have known each other for a year now. We do act as if we are a couple but the thing about it is that we are long-distance. I get that he is more of an “actions” kind of guy and it really shows on how he makes me feel, but I do think there is still uncertainty on commitment just because we both live very far from each other. So as I do agree with your thoughts on this article, I feel it might play out differently with my situation right now. But you have always been really helpful, so thank you!
Mae

By: M.

M. — Wed, 21 Aug 2019 12:31:27 +0000

Hello Alex. I have carefully read your article. To take too much in the head just for the sake of a man ?? No thanks, definitely too little for me, I give up. Because many other things, essential too, make me happy, and that impacts my environment and well beyond.
Glad to hear that you took over basketball, it’s just great. I would have defied you for a game but …
I wish you the best, always.