How to make a guy fall in love with you: The most important thing to know!
When you have your eye on someone and you want to make them fall head over heels for you, there is one thing that is of utmost importance. It is often neglected and people end up paying the price later on down the line in their relationship with the person they love. I’ve written this article today on the most important thing to pay attention to when you want to know how to make a guy fall in love with you.
There are two ways to make a guy fall in love with you, and only one of these two methods is going to give you long-term results…
How to make a guy fall in love with you: What NOT to do
I am going to start out by explaining what exactly you need to avoid doing if you really want to make a guy fall in love with you. I’m not talking about just “falling for you” – I am talking about developing real, long-term love that will withstand the test of time. If you just want to seduce a guy and foster a short-lived, primarily physical relationship, this article isn’t for you, but if you want to establish something stable, keep reading! The “Don’ts” are just as important as the “Do’s” here, so let’s start with what to avoid doing if you want to make a guy fall in love. So you’ve got your eye on a guy, and you definitely want to make him fall in love with you. Perhaps you’ve been dating for a while, or perhaps you have been admiring him from afar for the time being. But one thing is for sure – you want this guy to be yours! So how do you make a guy fall for you?
You’ve surely been paying attention to what he likes and what kind of personality he has. What kind of humor he has, and possibly even how he flirts. A natural tendency we all have is to mimic his behavior. I’m sure you’ve heard the expression, “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery…” This is actually a very common technique that we subconsciously use when we are trying to attract someone: we mimic them. Now here is what I’m getting at… This is a great tool for subconsciously sparking his attraction for you, as long as it’s SUBTLE, and as long as your personality is not changing to cater to his. There you have it. The most important thing to avoid doing when you want to make him love you is to begin acting like someone else. Sure, it’s fine if you mimic some of his gestures, but when you start adopting an attitude or behavior that is not your own, you could end up facing serious consequences later on down the line.
Think about it. Imagine that you start acting in a way that you know he’d respond positively to, and then he falls for you. Great! Right? Well, no, unfortunately, this is not so great. If he falls for you because of the way you’re acting, that means that you’re going to have to maintain this personality. This is not possible if this personality is not authentic, and the relationship will fall apart. Logically, this brings us to the subject of this article: how to make a guy fall in love with you. By now I’m sure you’ve put two and two together and you know what I’m about to say…
How to make him fall in love: Be yourself!
I know that when you read the title of this subject you’re probably going, “Well OBVIOUSLY I need to be myself” but you’d be surprised at how many people don’t do this. So what I want you to do is think about all the great things you bring to the table. What are you proud of about yourself, what are your favorite physical features, and what things should you highlight in conversation with your “target?” Making sure that you are confident is going to be the absolute most important thing here. If you are not comfortable with who you are, you’re going to either hide your personality and make it hard for him to see how amazing you are, or you’re going to commit the error I outlined above – acting like someone else.
When you want to make a guy love you, you have to show yourself in the best light possible and make him become aware of everything you bring to the table. There are other factors that will come into play as well of course like: * The art of seduction * Proper flirtation that involves being mysterious and teasing * Not being at this guy’s every beck and call * Inspiring him to want to be a part of your life And many more… If you’d like to know more or are interested in one on one coaching, don’t hesitate to reach out to me directly here and I can guide you towards your goal! Make sure that you’re feeling good about your own life because people that are genuinely happy attract others like moths to a flame! This is exactly what I mean when I say that you should inspire him to want to be a part of your life.
Don’t pretend to be someone else just so that you can make a guy fall in love with you. Start by letting him see how amazing you really are!
I am wishing you all the best,
Your coach for knowing how to make a guy fall in love with you