Signs of true love from a man: The 4 biggest ones!
When you’re dating someone and you’ve developed serious feelings for them, it is the most normal thing in the world to want to know whether or not he has fallen in love with you, too! But how can you tell when men seem to have such a hard time expressing their feelings verbally? I know you know what I’m talking about here. Generally speaking, men aren’t great at talking about their emotions. I can’t say that this is true for every man on this planet, but it is the case for the majority! You’ve been feeling like love has been budding between you but you want to be sure. So what are the biggest signs of true love from a man?
Fortunately, you’ve found an article written by someone who has been a love and relationship coach since 2007 that has worked with thousands upon thousands of men and women. And yes, that would be me 😉 I know both sides of the equation, so I have decided to write you an article on the signs of true love from a man, the signs that he’s not that into you, and last but not least, how to make him fall for you! I want to provide you with all the tools you need to set you up for longterm success in love your love life. It’s what I’ve dedicated my life to and every day I work with people who are struggling with finding solutions to their problems in love. So, let’s look at the biggest signs of true love from a guy.
The 4 signs of true love from a man to be on the lookout for
We’ve all heard the expression, “Actions speak louder than words.” I can’t tell you how true this expression is, especially when it comes to spotting the signs a man is in love! If you really want to know if a man is truly in love with you, there are four things to keep an eye out for. First and foremost, we need to take a look at his actions…
First sign of true love from a man: Actions
This is the biggest one by far. Whether you’re looking for signs of true love from a shy man, or signs of true love from the most outgoing man in the world, if he’s doing everything he can think of to make you happy, to make you feel confident, and to find a solution to all your problems, then he’s in love with you. On the other hand, when a man does not show up for you, it means that he’s not that invested. When a guy isn’t invested, he’s not in love. As I was saying in the beginning, the truth lies in a man’s actions; not his words. One of the biggest signs of true love is when a man can show you how he feels about you through his actions.
Clear signs of true love from a man: Introducing you to his life
When a man goes out of his way to introduce you to the people he cares about in his life like his friends and family, his colleagues, and anyone he holds in high esteem, it means he has serious feelings for you. This is also true if you see that he’s making an effort to show you his world. It’s hard for men to project themselves in relationships because we value our independence so much, but when he’s ready to do that he’s going to invite you into his private life. When this happens, you can rest assured that this man loves you and that you are very important in his life. Another thing I want you to be on the lookout for is how your significant other talks about the future…
How projection is a sign of true love from a man
As I said, it is not easy for a man to project himself in a relationship, but if you’ve noticed that he’s been talking about the house he wants to build in the future, the trips he wants to go on with you, the business he wants to build with you, etc, then you can be sure that he’s truly love with you. I want to bring your attention to one thing, however. Beware of a guy that is saying this type of stuff to you very early on in a relationship. If you’ve only been dating for a couple of weeks and he’s already talking about these kinds of things with you, I would take it with a grain of salt. All too often I see men that do this because they just want to experience the surge of emotions, then two weeks later they end things saying, “Oh, I’m not ready for a relationship.” So again, actions will always speak louder than words. Now, if you’ve been together for a while and you see that he’s talking about the future with you on a regular basis, then you can rest assured that he is truly in love.
True love signs: You are a priority
This is another one of the huge signs of true love. If a man loves you, he is just going to want to make sure that you are happy. He will want to help you in the things that you care about and do what is in his power to help you to become a better person. A man who is truly in love with you will support you in all of your dreams and projects and show you that he is there to help. Men love to help and protect, and when they are in love, they will want to show you this. It’s more than just being there for you – it’s about giving you attention, going out of his way for you, listening to you, and doing things that he knows you would really appreciate. I know that it isn’t always clear because you want him to say, “I love you,” but this isn’t always so easy for men! Trust me, I know it’s frustrating, but just keep an eye out for the four signs that I just went over and you’ll have a much clearer picture of how he feels about you.
What are the signs that he is not in love with you?
If the signs of true love that I went over above did not resonate with you, it might be time to look for the signs that this man is not actually in love. It isn’t pleasant to read, but its always better to have more information than not enough information. When you have a clear idea of the situation, you can start to think about the right solutions. So, the first thing I want you to pay attention to is who is making the first step. This is a very important element. Is this guy making the first move and is he the one reaching out to you and making plans to see you? If he is not making this effort, it’s not a good sign. I know that some of you will respond to that saying, “But Alex, he responds to me so I know he feels the same way about me!” And I will tell you that I don’t agree. A response is easy. It doesn’t require you to go out of your way. Making the first step is what is hard! So if he isn’t doing it, he might not be in love. The other thing to think about is whether or not this guy is talking about the future with you. If he can see you in his future, then it means that he’s really into you. If, on the other hand, he never ever says anything regarding his future that involves you, it’s a problem.
One of the important signs of true love that often gets overlooked is whether or not this guy is taking his time with you. It might drive you nuts, but if a guy is taking things slow it can mean that he actually has strong feelings for you. It means that he isn’t just getting hung up on the physical element of this relationship and he genuinely wants to get to know you on a deeper, emotional level. This is a big sign of true love in a man and it is definitely something to keep an eye out for! In addition to that, if this guy is very hot and cold with you, it might not be true love. He needs to make the effort to get to know the real you and talk about building a future with you consistently – not just at the beginning of the relationship when he wants to seduce you. Last but not least, if you’re looking for signs of true love from a man and you aren’t sure of what he feels for you, think about whether or not he pays attention to the little things. For example, let’s say you told him at one point that you like basketball, and he goes out and gets tickets to the next big game so that you two can go together. He’s being thoughtful, he’s paying attention, and he’s going out of his way to make you happy.
On the other hand, if he’s just getting you generic gifts like jewelry and is not paying attention to the little tidbits of information you’ve given him about what you truly enjoy, he could just be trying to buy your affection. There is a difference between someone being in love with you and someone just trying to charm you. For more information on how to tell if this guy is in love with you, I encourage you to check out the videos on my YouTube Channel!
I want to see signs of true love from a man!
If by this point in the article you are feeling like he might not feel the way that you do about him, I don’t want you to panic. There are plenty of things that you can do to make a man fall in love with you and I wanted to dedicate the last section of this article to them. I have a couple tricks up my sleeve to share with you that will help you to make this man fall head over heels in love with you! I know that in Hollywood and Disney movies we’re always taught that in order to receive more love, we have to give more love! Sadly, that is not at all how love works and is a mindset that makes a lot of people suffer in the end.
Instead, I want you to think about this. If you really want a man to truly fall in love with you, you have to make him understand that you are different. And don’t tell me, “Alex, I don’t really feel that I am that unique…” because you ARE! There is no one else like you on this planet. It’s all about showing your uniqueness to this man and being confident about who you are and what you bring to the table. You have got to show him what you enjoy, what your goals are, what projects you’re working on, what you want your future to look like, what you’ve been doing for yourself, your passions, your hobbies, where you like to go to have fun, and what kinds of new things you’re discovering in your life. If you can do this, he’ll start to see you as someone who is confident and is living a life that she loves. This will make him want to be a part of it, and the closer he gets to you, the more he will discover who you really are and start to fall in love. So it’s all about cultivating your life into something you’re proud of and becoming the best version of yourself. It also protects you from being clingy or needy, and from doing anything that would push him away. I also encourage you to take your time.
Chemistry takes time to develop and a man will require time to truly fall in love, be himself, and make sure that he can be comfortable being himself. Keep in mind that if you really want to see signs of true love, then you have to trust your own personality, never be needy and always take your time. Enjoy the present moment and invite him into your world. Love isn’t simple, but I am here to guide you every step of the way. If you would like one on one guidance and a customized action plan to help you make this man fall in love with you, all you have to do is reach out to me by clicking here. Yes, it IS possible and it all starts with you.
I wish you nothing but the best in love,
Your #1 French relationship expert,