How to satisfy a man in bed and keep him coming back for more!
Knowing how to satisfy a man in bed is a bit more complex than a lot of people might think. You often hear that it’s just about knowing some amazing positions, but it actually goes deeper than that. In this article, I want to share some of these amazing positions, but I also want to tell you about the psychological aspect as well as some of the things that men want but don’t have the courage to tell you!
If you really want to learn all there is to know about truly spicing things up in your relationship and pleasing a man in bed, you’ve come to the right place. Knowing how to really turn him on, the best positions to make sex amazing, and making sure that you don’t neglect certain elements in your personal life is the perfect cocktail for putting Aphrodite to shame when it comes to your sexual prowess!
How to please your man in bed by knowing where to touch him
I’m sure you’ve heard that women have more erogenous zones than men, but that doesn’t mean that the ones that men do have should be forgotten! His actual member is the most obvious one of course, but I wanted to share a few other ones with you that you may not be aware of.
Let’s start with the more straightforward ones like his nipples. They aren’t used to getting much attention and while the sensitivity will vary from person to person, you can lick, suck, or gently nibble them when you want to turn him on. One of the best ways to please a man in bed is to start turning him on little by little.
Focus on arousing your partner even before you begin foreplay! Begin by kissing his lips and then work your way down his chest, giving special attention to his nipples.
This brings us to the next erogenous zone, which is his V line. The area right about his groin is full of nerve endings, so if you’re on your way to go down on him, use your tongue and/or fingertips to caress this area and make him weak with anticipation. A bit of teasing doesn’t hurt, so draw it out until he almost can’t take it anymore!
When it comes to pleasing your man in bed, don’t forget other areas like his earlobes and his neck. In fact, the area around his Adam’s apple is the most sensitive.
If you’re comfortable going behind the family jewels, his perineum is a goldmine of nerve endings. While you have his member in your hands, gently massage the skin between his testicles and anus. Keep in mind that this is likely to bring him close to orgasm so if you want him to last a bit longer, massage a little bit deeper.
When the body is more aroused, it is more sensitive to touch. If you really want to please your man in the bedroom, don’t underestimate the power of touch!
You can also set the mood by giving him a massage that gets steamier and steamier as you go…
How to satisfy a man in bed: The best positions
I wanted to add some of the actual positions that drive a man wild in bed, but I also invite you to share your favorite ones in the comments section below! What is the best way to please your man in bed and what moves would you recommend that your fellow readers try?
The most important thing to keep in mind when you’re thinking about how to satisfy a man in bed is to have fun. Don’t put pressure on yourself to do everything perfectly and don’t panic if something doesn’t go the way that you planned! Knowing how to laugh things off and being open to trying new things is crucial.
Each man will have a different preference in terms of what positions he likes best in the bedroom. The good news is that you get to have all kinds of fun testing different things out and finding out what works best for both of you! As you do this, you will witness your relationship develop more and more passion.
While you’re in bed together, pay attention to what he responds well to. Men generally love positions where they can see you, and they especially love seeing you enjoy yourself, so don’t hesitate to be vocal about how it feels and how much you’re loving it. Remember, amazing sex involves two people, so if you’re not enjoying yourself chances are that he isn’t going to either.
If you’re in a position that isn’t doing much for you, it’s fine to switch it up. Take the reins and move your bodies into a different position. In fact, if he’s usually the dominant one, seeing you take over can turn him on even more. The key to exciting sex is freshness. If you’re constantly doing the same thing over and over again, it can get boring.
It’s good to have some positions that you know work for you (most people love missionary, cowgirl, and doggy style,) but don’t be afraid to throw some new moves into the mix.
I’ve created an entire article on new sex moves to try and if you’re looking for some positions that you’ve never tried before, check it out!
Since you’re already here, let me outline some of them for you.
The best positions for pleasing your man in the bedroom are those that enable him to really see you, and those that enable him to go deep. A good one that incorporates both of these aspects consists of him keeping his hips on the bed, but allowing his upper back, shoulders, and head rest on the floor while you ride him cowgirl style. The angle gives him a spectacular view, it puts you in control of the rhythm, it allows him to penetrate you deeply, and the rush of blood to his head heightens the sensations.
If you’re looking for something a bit more tame, try a classic position but with a twist. For example, make love missionary style but in front of a mirror, or try making love in chair pose (sit in his lap while both of you face forward) and sit on top of the washing machine while it’s on the highest spin cycle! Try making love in the shower, or in a tent in the wilderness. Always look for new experiences to share and your relationship will benefit!
Spontaneity is one the absolute best things for pleasing your man in bed, and you don’t have to limit it to while you’re actually in the bedroom. When you’re out and about, surprise him by whispering something naughty in his ear about what you’d like to do to him later, or take him by the hand and lead him into the sex store that you’re walking past!
Don’t be afraid to bring props and toys into the mix. Anything from a blindfold or restraints to whipped cream or sex toys can really spice things up in the relationship!
If your man could use a bit of guidance in the bedroom, don’t be afraid to tell him what you really like during sex and what you would like more of. It’s OK to tell him about something that doesn’t do much for you, but keep in mind that positive reinforcement is the best approach, especially when it comes to sexual matters.
Something that is actually more important than any position is how confident you are. If you’re sheepish or ashamed of things that really turn you on, or if you aren’t comfortable with your body at all, you are going to block yourself from really connecting on a sexual level with your man. The way to remedy this is to work on self esteem, maintain physical health, and practice communication in your relationship. Now I’m not saying that you have to be full of yourself or have the figure of a Victoria’s Secret model in order to be happy – I’m saying that taking care of your mind and body are important elements of a satisfying sex life (and life in general!) I want you to feel good about yourself and feel confident in what you bring to the table (…and the bed 😉 )
The more confident and at ease you are in your relationship, the easier it will be to make your sex life better than ever.
Also, be open to talking about any sexual fantasies that you might have. He might be too shy to bring his sexual fantasies up on his own, but if you open up that conversation and make him feel at ease, he will be more likely to share!
How to please him: What men secretly want
Just like with possible hidden fantasies that he might have, there are a few things that your man might really love but doesn’t know how to tell you…
For example, generally speaking most men adore oral sex, and lots of them feel like they aren’t quite getting enough of it in their relationship. If you feel like you want to learn a bit more about the art of going down on a man, I invite you to read a book entitled “Blow by Blow” by Michael Webb. It is full of helpful pointers and techniques that are sure to make him weak in the knees!
Another one of the best ways to please a man sexually is to literally show him what you like. Many men have a secret fantasy about seeing their woman pleasure herself.
You can try this while during foreplay or while you’re already making love.
The key is to be open to talking about how to make sex amazing together. Some people allow it to be a taboo topic and they end up holding themselves back from having a truly satisfying sex life.
As you know, I am here to help you every step of the way so if you feel like you need a helping hand, don’t hesitate to reach out to me directly here!
I wish you all the best in life and in love.
Your coach for knowing how to satisfy a man in the bedroom,