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He is talking to another girl: What do I do?

by | March 31st 2023 | 0 comments

Have you ever been in a situation where everything was going great with a guy, and then suddenly you find out that he is talking to another girl? It can be a crushing blow to your confidence and make you question everything you thought you had with him!

But fear not, because there are things you can do to handle this situation and come out on top. And that is exactly what I wanted to share with you in today’s article.

Why is he talking to someone else…?

So you’ve found out that you’re not the only girl he’s talking to. Ouch. :-/
I bet your first question is, “WHY is this guy talking to someone else? I thought we had something good here…”

First and foremost, it’s important to recognize that there are many different reasons why someone might choose to chat with multiple people when they’re dating. However, one of the most common reasons is simply that they’re trying to keep their options open before they commit to a relationship.In other cases, and this is a less pleasant thought, it can actually be because the guy has lost a bit of interest. That said, even if you’re currently thinking, “He stopped texting me and I’m not sure what to do,” there are plenty of options. There are no magic solutions, but I have three techniques that will help you turn things around and make this guy want to spend way more time with you! What to do when someone doesn’t reply to your texts: The 3 solutions Right about now you might be wondering, “Should I call him” but we are going to need to focus on YOU and your actions. You may also be wondering if you should be playing games to get his attention but the answer is no. Games are never a good idea because they could undermine the foundation of this relationship and you can end up getting very hurt. If you play games, it becomes much easier for him to take you for granted, lose interest and not pay attention to the things that you are doing. Instead, we need to inspire him to want to get closer to you. But how? He doesn’t respond to my texts: Getting busy One of the things that I talk about the most frequently with my clients is the importance of understanding the human mind and how we operate. Remember that we, as human beings, are attracted to the things that we feel that we do not possess, and we take for granted the things that we feel we do possess. When we apply this concept to relationships, it is easy to see why it’s so important to be independent and give people space (and the opportunity to miss you)! It’s easy to get carried away when a relationship begins and dedicate all our time and energy to it. Unfortunately, this is also often when the other person starts to become more distant. They realize that you’re no longer an exciting challenge and it becomes dangerously easy for them to take you for granted. So the first solution when he doesn’t text back is to fill up your schedule and get busy. If he isn’t texting you back, it means he isn’t valuing you, so you have to show him how amazing your life is. It’s not a game, but you can show that your life is fun. If you make it seem inaccessible simply by not reaching out to him all the time, you’ll whet his appetite and grab his attention. Enjoy your time with your friends and family, focus on your passions and your hobbies, and work towards your personal and professional goals. It will be great for you if you can do this. You won’t have the time to think about why he’s not texting you, you won’t be glancing at your phone, and you’ll be changing your habits. This will set you up for longterm success in love, my friends. What to do when he doesn’t text you back: Make your life exciting Remember what I was saying about how people value what they think they don’t have? Well, a lot of the women who come to me asking about what to do when a guy doesn’t text them back aren’t showcasing how exciting their lives actually are. They place all their focus on the guy and trying to get him to talk to them, and in doing so, they wind up inadvertently making the guy feel like he’s the center of the universe. Sadly, after a while this gets boring and he can lose interest. Maybe your life isn’t as amazing and inspiring as you want it to be right now, or maybe it is and you just haven’t been making an effort to communicate that to this guy, but now is the time to make some changes. We want him to look at you and think “Wow, she’s incredible… I want to know more about her and all the interesting things she does.” A man is going to pursue a woman that he thinks he can’t have! So when you talk to this guy the next time, make sure you let him in on the fun and exciting things you’ve been doing. Pay attention to your tone of voice. Show him how happy you are in your life. Tell him that today was the most amazing day because you did something wild like skydiving for the first time. These types of emotions are great because they’re very magnetic. You can share things through pictures as well, and we need to change the communication between you. If you can send him voice notes, pictures or even talk to him on the phone, you’ll have a much easier time conveying your positive energy. I know you don't want to make the first step, but changing the way you two are communicating is a great way to get his attention. How to get a guy to text you: Focus on real life As I was saying above, some people are just terrible texters. I have some friends that are basically impossible to talk to via text but are actually quite fun when you’re with them. If your guy isn’t great at texting, I encourage you to make the moments you spend together in real life extra special. The key to making a guy want to commit to you is to make them associate you with fun, positivity and a great time. The more special the time you spend together feels, the more time he will want to spend with you. You’ll see, it’s like clockwork. Instead of focusing on talking to each other via text message and messenger, think outside of the box and figure out what new places you could check out for dates. Focus on doing things you’ve never done before, and going places you’ve never gone before. Make things feel fresh and he’ll gravitate towards you. Even if you see that he’s online and he’s not talking to you, don’t sweat it. It’s ok if he’s not messaging you constantly. It’s also OK if he takes his time before responding to you. If you feel that he’s genuinely uninterested, then I encourage you to reach out to me so that we can create a tailor-made action plan to make him crave your attention. We can create new reactions, help you to be cool and zen. That way, you can easily show this guy that you are different. To work with me, just click here! Navigating a guy’s perspective on texting I know that we men can be confusing in our actions sometimes. But that’s just it. We’re all about action. So texting isn’t always the easiest way to communicate. We want to have experiences, so I encourage you to really focus on making your life rich with exciting and attractive experiences, and I encourage you to make every moment you spend with this guy special. Take your time and don’t put too much pressure on yourself. The more confident you are in yourself, and the more fulfilled you’re feeling in your own life, the easier it will be to attract this man. Don’t let him play with your emotions or make you doubt yourself. Just work on being the best version of yourself and live the life of your dreams. This is how you’ll attract a man like a moth to a flame and make him crave your attention. Switch up the platform you use to communicate with this guy and allow your personality to shine through! Remember, we want to achieve what we are attracted to and we feel we don’t have. So think of yourself as the main prize. If you can adopt this mindset, you’ll see a huge change in the situation! As always, I am here to help you with whatever you need. Sincerely, Your coach when you want to know why he doesn’t text back

When you’re first getting to know someone, it can be hard to tell if they’re truly a good fit for you. You might enjoy talking to them, but you might also be unsure if you have enough in common or if there’s a strong enough connection to pursue a relationship.

This is the same for both men and women.

In situations like this, it’s not uncommon for people to chat with multiple people at the same time. By doing so, they’re able to get to know each person better and compare their feelings and compatibility. This doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re not interested in having a relationship with any of the people they’re chatting with, but rather that they’re trying to figure out who they connect with the most.

Another reason why someone might chat with multiple people when they’re dating is that they’re simply enjoying the process of meeting new people. They might be looking for casual dating or just trying to expand their social circle, and chatting with multiple people at once allows them to do this.

It’s also worth noting that some people might be chatting with multiple people because they’re not yet ready to commit to a relationship. This could be due to a variety of factors, such as a recent breakup or a busy schedule, and it’s important to respect their boundaries and take things at a pace that feels comfortable for both parties.

Ultimately, the decision to chat with multiple people when dating is a personal one, and it’s up to each individual to decide what works best for them. However, by understanding some of the reasons why someone might choose to do this, you’ll be better equipped to navigate the dating world and handle situations like this…

How it feels when he is texting another woman!

The most important thing you can do in a situation like this is to be calm and collected. When you let your emotions get the best of you, it becomes way too easy to make serious mistakes!

Discovering that the person you have been chatting with or dating is also seeing someone else can be a deeply unsettling experience. It can make you feel embarrassed for trusting him with your feelings and vulnerable personal information. You may feel like you have been played or used as a backup option, which can be incredibly hurtful and damaging to your self-esteem.

Furthermore, it can make you doubt how this guy really feels about you. You may wonder whether this guy is really interested in pursuing a relationship with you, or if you were just a temporary distraction until something better came along. These doubts can be especially challenging if you had been feeling hopeful or optimistic about your connection with him.

Finally, discovering that the guy you’re chatting with is also seeing someone else can make you feel discouraged in the dating game. You may feel like you can’t trust anyone and that finding someone who is truly interested in you and committed to building a relationship is impossible. This can be a challenging mindset to overcome, but it’s important to remember that not everyone is the same and that there are plenty of people out there who are looking for genuine, meaningful connections!How to move on after being cheated on

So, if you have found yourself in this situation, let’s talk about what to do!

What to do when he is talking to another girl

While discovering that the guy you like is chatting with someone else at the same time that he’s talking to you can be a difficult experience, it’s important to remember that there are steps you can take to move forward in a positive and healthy way. Rather than dwelling on the negative aspects of the situation, it’s important to focus on finding solutions that will help you maintain your self-esteem and protect your heart. In the following paragraph, we’ll explore some practical steps you can take to navigate this challenging situation and move forward with confidence.

Step #1: Stay calm

The first step is to remain calm. It’s easy to want to lash out at him and make him feel guilty for what he’s done. But the truth is, yelling and being emotional will only make things worse. By staying calm, you show him that you are in control of your emotions and that he cannot manipulate you.

Step #2: Be direct in your communication

The next step is to have direct communication with him. Let him know that you are aware of his actions and that you don’t approve of them. It’s important to set boundaries and let him know what you will and will not tolerate in a relationship. Remember, you deserve to be respected and valued, and if the guy can’t do that, then he’s not the one for you.

Step #3: Punishing him

Now, this may sound harsh, but sometimes a little punishment is necessary. Men can be like children, and they need to have boundaries. So, don’t always be available when this guy calls or texts you. Make him work for your attention and time. When the guy wants to see you, ask him what he has in mind. If it’s not something special or unique, then say no. Challenge him to put in the effort to win you over.

How to feel better when your guy is texting another girl

Discovering that the guy you like is talking to another girl can be a difficult experience, but it’s important to remember that there are steps you can take to move forward in a positive and healthy way. Rather than dwelling on the negative aspects of the situation, it’s important to focus on finding solutions that will help you maintain your self-esteem and protect your heart.

One of the most powerful ways to make yourself feel better when you find out that the guy you have a romantic interest in is chatting with another girl is to focus on self-care. Taking care of yourself physically and mentally can help you feel more confident, resilient, and positive. Regular exercise is one great way to improve your physical and mental well-being. It can help you release tension, improve your mood, and boost your confidence. Yoga is another excellent self-care practice that can help you relax and destress, while also building strength and flexibility.chasing a man

Spending time with supportive friends and family members who care about you can also be incredibly healing. Having a support system can help you feel less alone and provide you with a safe space to process your feelings. They can offer an outside perspective and remind you of your worth when you might be feeling down. They can also provide a distraction and make you feel happier.

Focusing on accomplishing personal and professional goals can also help you feel better about yourself and your life. When you have something positive to focus on, it can take your mind off the situation and give you a sense of purpose. It can be something small like finishing a book, or something bigger like starting a new project. Setting achievable goals and working towards them can help you feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.

In addition to self-care, it’s important to practice self-compassion. This means being kind and understanding towards yourself, rather than criticizing or blaming yourself for the situation.

Remember that your worth and value are not defined by the actions of others, and that you deserve to be treated with respect, kindness, and honesty. Practice positive self-talk and remind yourself of your strengths and accomplishments.

By prioritizing your own well-being and happiness, you can move forward with a positive mindset and an open heart, ready to attract the love and connection you truly deserve. Remember that this situation is not a reflection of your worth, and that there are plenty of people out there who are looking for a genuine and meaningful connection. Stay open to the possibilities, and trust that you will find someone who sees and values you for who you are.

Even if he’s talking to another girl, don’t stress

In conclusion, discovering that the guy you are talking to is also talking to another girl can be a difficult experience. It can be a crushing blow to your confidence and make you question everything you thought you had with him. However, it is essential to remain calm and collected in such a situation. By focusing on finding solutions that will help you maintain your self-esteem and protect your heart, you can navigate this challenging situation and move forward with confidence. Remember that you deserve to be respected and valued, and if he can’t do that, then he’s not the one for you.

Self-care is a powerful way to make yourself feel better when you find out that the guy you have a romantic interest in is talking to another girl. Finally, remember that not everyone is the same, and there are plenty of people out there who are looking for genuine, meaningful connections. Keep an open mind and heart, practice the solutions I shared with you in this article, and you will see your luck begin to change.

If you need one on one guidance, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me or a member of my team by clicking here.

Wishing you all the best,

Alex Cormont


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