Does he like me or is he just being nice: How to know for SURE!
Figuring out whether a guy likes you or is just being nice can be super difficult. This is especially true if you’re dealing with a shy guy. I wanted to write today’s article for those of you who have started to wonder if a certain guy in question has feelings for you or if he is just someone with a naturally flirtatious personality, those of you who are curious about what a shy guy might be feeling for you, and those of you who just want to know how to read men!
Trust me, I know how complicated it can be to understand what we men think and feel. That is why I have dedicated my life to help you understand male psychology and teach you the best ways to attract the relationship of your dreams. There are certain characteristics of a man who is interested in a woman to keep an eye out for, and you are going to find out what these things are right here in this article.
So if you have been wondering, “Does he likes me or is he just being nice,” you have come to the right place! By the time you reach the end of this article, you’re going to know if this guy is into you or not. So let’s dive in!
Is he attracted to me or just being nice: 3 telltale signs he feels something
Don’t you wish you could just read minds sometimes? Wouldn’t that make life so much easier? It can be so frustrating not knowing whether someone likes you or not. You don’t want to assume wrong and wind up embarrassing yourself, but I do want to say that you can make this man want you, if that is what you want! But I am getting ahead of myself now.
First, does he like you, or is he just being nice? Let’s analyze the situation and find out! The very first thing I want you to keep in mind when you’re asking yourself this question is his body language. Men are all about actions vs words, and when a man likes a woman, his body language will often reveal it. Pay attention to the way he looks at you, the way he talks to you, and the way he touches you. If he’s always got a big smile, if he’s very tactile with you, and if he looks at you with bright eyes as if he were looking at a gift, it means he’s into you and that he’s attracted to you.
Body language is such a powerful indicator, especially because men are sometimes so bad at expressing their emotions. So if you can see that he’s connecting with you on a physical level, we are on the right track. The next thing we need to look at is whether or not he compliments you. When a man is really attracted to a woman, he’s going to want to compliment her. He’ll notice little things like the dress you’re wearing and tell you that you look beautiful. He’ll be impressed by your humor and tell you that he thinks you’re hilarious. He’ll notice the great work you did on that project at work and he’ll tell you about it.
The way a guy talks to you and compliments you will give you powerful insight into whether or not he’s attracted to you. The more compliment you receive, the more likely it is that he is into you.
The third thing I want to bring your attention to when you’re wondering, “Is he into me or just being nice” has to do with his actions. Is he going out of his way to do things with you and for you Does he call you, text you, ask you to go out with him? Every time a man does an action for you it means that you are at least on his mind. If he is doing it a lot, it means that he is into you and wants to see you more. He wants to spend more time with you and get to know you more.
The problem that I see in my one on one coaching sessions with clients all around the world is that when you like a man, you’ll start to “interpret” his behavior. You’ll say, “Alex, he’s so nice, he’s so sweet, he always tells me he likes me…” But then when I ask you if he’s going out of his way to make plans with you, the answer is no. So perhaps he likes you, but it’s not enough. But because you are developing feelings for him, you start to get really invested and it turns into a one-sided relationship. If this rings a bell with you, or if you want to get this guy more interested in a relationship with you, I want you to know that there are plenty of solutions. I can reverse the situation and get him more invested. To work with me or a member of my team, just click here. You have everything it takes within you, and we can help you really make him fall for you and want to take things to the next level.
Does he like me or is he just being nice: Shy guys
Ah, shy guys. This is a whole different ballgame. It can be so challenging to read a shy guy because other guys usually know how to charm and attract you, but shy guys will act differently. They’ll be less confident, they’ll be more nervous, they’ll put you on a pedestal, and it can be really hard to figure out whether they have feelings for you or are just being nice.
I have three things to keep an eye out for when you’re wondering, “Is he into me” and he happens to be very shy. First, we need to pay attention to the way he reacts. Guys who aren’t shy will be more in “action” mode, and they’ll make the first step, but shy guys will be more in “reaction” mode. So for example, let’s say you ask him about how his weekend was. He will talk about it, but he might not be forthcoming with every little detail about it. But if you ask him more specific questions about his weekend and see that he starts opening up, it’s a good sign. If he likes you, he’ll open up more and more – it just might require you to prompt him a little more. If he doesn’t open up or show you that he wants to share things with you, then he might not be interested and it’s time to move away. So pay attention to his reactions. If he is trying to express more things about his life, what he’s doing, what he likes, and is he trying to open up to you? If the answer is yes, then this shy guy likes you.
The second element to keep in mind when you can’t tell if you’re seeing signs he’s just being friendly or if this guy has underlying feelings for you, is whether or not he’s trying to talk to you. Does he text you, did he add you on Facebook, does he follow you on social media, does he like your posts, does he send you messages? If he does, this can be a big deal for a shy guy. In person, it might be hard for him to talk to you and connect with you, simply because he’s shy, so he’ll try to look for indirect ways to do it. So if he’s clearly paying attention to you on these platforms, it’s a very good sign.
Next up, does this guy talk to you about this life? When a guy that is shy opens up and talks about his work, his family, his friends, and his hobbies it means that he feels confident and comfortable with you. It means he likes you and that he is trying his best. More often than not, what happens is that he will be trying to create some chemistry and communication with you, even though he’s timid.
So there are a lot of guys who are a bit shyer and I know it’s hard to tell if they like you, but just look at his reactions and his indirect actions, and pay attention to how he shares his life with you. This will help you spot signs he’s just being nice and differentiate between those and signs that he actually likes you!
Is he just being nice or does he really like me: the bottom line
When you really like a guy, figuring out how he feels about you can be very tricky. As I said above, you don’t want to make any mistakes and you want to understand his behavior so that you can approach the situation the right way. So I have just a few more tips for you as this article comes to a close.
Look at his eyes, When a man is flirting with you, he will look at you in a different way and you’ll notice this. I know you can spot the difference between someone who’s just talking to you like their pal vs someone who is attracted to you. I also want you to pay attention to whether or not he’s doing things for you and how he acts around you when he’s doing them. Does he go out of his way for you? Does he help you out with things that can make your life easier? And if he does, how does he communicate with you? If he jokes around and if he’s creating a physical connection with you, and if you feel that there is an intimacy developing, then he likes you. A guy likes you if he’s creating a connection with you.
Now, if you want to know for sure, I have one last suggestion for you. Give him a compliment like, “Hey I really like those jeans on you.” He’ll say, “thanks!” You can then respond with, “Yeah, now we can finally see your cute butt.” When you switch things to flirt mode, you will see how he reacts. You can also challenge him a bit. Say, “Hey, how come you haven’t asked me out on a date?” When you ask him something like this, you will be able to tell by his reaction if he’s been flirting with you or if he’s just being nice. And don’t worry about being needy. This is about reverse psychology – it has nothing to do with neediness. You’re not saying “I really like you, I really wanna go out with you,” you’re just asking him why he hasn’t made a move. So reverse psychology is extremely important because in addition to giving you an answer to your question, it allows you to get in control of the situation.
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