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How to dress sexy!

by | December 26th 2018 | 2 comments

A good first impression can go a long way, and knowing how to present yourself in the best light is a tool that can serve you in a variety of situations. Whether you want to know how to dress sexy for that special someone you’ve got your eye on, how to adopt a better style that makes you feel sexy, or how to whet your partner’s appetite, you’ve come to the right place. There are many easy wardrobe changes that you can make starting today and start feeling sexier than ever. This article will explore some of the best ways to dress and how to boost your self confidence!

It’s amazing the difference a nice outfit can make when you’re trying to attract the guy you want or get a positive reaction from your partner. Sometimes it’s the perfect tool for putting a spark back in the relationship and sometimes it’s the perfect way to get your love interest to take notice before you start talking. We are human beings are visual creatures and if you know how to play on what is aesthetically appealing, you will undoubtedly reap the benefits!

Dressing well can help you in the professional world because it shows that suggests that you’re well put together and organized, and that you know how to take care of yourself. Not to mention, it will definitely catch the eyes of potential love interests. Knowing how to dress sexy will turn up the heat during dates, but you can also use it to jog a person’s imagination… Without further ado, let’s take a look at some of the best ways to find your signature, sexy look.

How to be sexy: Here is THE most important thing to know

Before I get into the recipe for how to dress sexy, there is one key ingredient to keep in mind that is going to change everything. Without this ingredient, it would be like making a pizza without dough.

You might be able to guess what I’m about to tell you. In your opinion, what is the sexiest thing that a person can do or wear? Please don’t hesitate to share your thoughts in the comments section below!

Being sexy is NOT what you think…

In my experience, I’ve come to realize that some of the things that people find the sexiest have nothing to do with clothing. More than what you put on, the most attractive feature a person can have is their personality and confidence.

There are a lot of “rules” floating around out there, but it boils down to what makes you feel good about yourself and what boosts your self-esteem. When you have a magnetic and confident personality, you’ll attract people like moths to a flame. People are attracted to what they want to be like, and the first rule of attraction is that like attracts like. So as I’m sure you’ve figured out, if you want to attract someone sexy, you have to feel sexy too. You can start by learning how to dress for the part!

Dressing well is one of the best ways to catch someone’e eye, especially if you haven’t had the chance to talk to them yet, regardless of your goal. Knowing how to present yourself in the best light is an essential tool for giving your potential new boss a positive image of you, and it’s also an essential tool for sparking someone’s attention when you want to get to know them on a more intimate level!

Confidence is key!

I often hear people saying, “Dress sexy for your age,” and while it’s true, you might not feel comfortable in the same outfit at age 20 and at age 65, you don’t have to rule anything out that makes you feel sexy and good about your body. If you have the confidence to wear something that brings you joy, wear it. After all, clothing is a way to express yourself.
More than the clothes that are on your body, it’s the attitude that you present that is going to make the biggest difference.

Think about it – if you’re wearing the sexiest outfit your love interest has ever seen, and yet you sit with hunched shoulders, gnawing the straw in your drink, nervously staring at the floor, well… The image that you’re presenting of yourself is not going to be in synch with your goal.
For the best result, you want to wear a sexy outfit and pair it with a sexy attitude.

If you’d like to know more on the subject, I invite you to read this: The best tips t know how to be sexy!

How to dress sexy: The general rules that apply to everyone

Whether you’re a man or a woman, there are certain things to do when you’re working on how to be hot and dress sexy.

Before we get into actual sexy clothing, let’s talk about one of the sexiest and personalized things a person can own: perfume or cologne. It is fun and satisfying to have a signature scent, and it can make people literally turn their heads as you walk by because they’ll want to know what smells so enticing.How to dress sexy

The important thing to remember is this: a little bit goes a long way. People often make the mistake of putting on so much perfume or cologne that those around them end up with watering eyes, and that’s not fun for anybody. Instead of doing this, spray a bit in the air in front of you and then walk through it. Ladies, if you have long hair, I’ve got a trick for you.
Spray a bit in your hair and then put it up. When you’re on a date or close to your love interest, let your hair down and let your perfume surprise and entice him.

Subtle and sophisticated scents are the best, especially when you have to be close to smell them. This creates immediate intimacy.

Going to the gym is another way to make sure that you are sexy, and it’s not just because you’ll see physical changes. When you exercise, your body releases endorphins that make you feel great and boost your energy, and when you couple that with the changes you’ll see in your body, guess what happens. Thats right – confidence boost, and that’s exactly what we want!

Also, I should mention that when you’re looking for sexy things to wear, skin tight isn’t always sexiest. If you look like you can’t breathe, either in a super tight dress or skin tight jeans, it typically isn’t flattering and is therefore less sexy. The best thing to do is to focus on clothes that fit well, and emphasize your favorite assets. If you’re in a relationship, where things that amplify things that you both love about your physique, and make you feel sexy… But more on that in a moment.

Another essential element to keep in mind is something that a surprising number of people neglect: presentation. Just remember that beauty is found in the details. Iron your clothes, keep your beard or 5 o’clock shadow neat, maintain good dental hygiene, keep your hair clean, and so on and so forth. People pick up on these kinds of details, and they’re all a part of the overall image that you’re presenting.

So let’s just into what to wear when you want to be sexy, and let’s start with a easy tool that works for everybody:

Looking for what colors look best on you? Take a look at your iris and all the shades that you see there will be the most flattering on you!

How to look sexy on a daily basis and when you’ve got your eye on someone

There are lots of things that you can do when you’re trying to attract a certain someone’s attention… So what works best?

I would say that the easiest thing to remember is this: Less isn’t necessarily more. You don’t have to be scantily clad if you want to be considered sexy.
Choose one thing that you love about your body and accentuate it. For example, if you have great legs, wear fitted pants or a shorter dress or skirt, and leave the rest covered. If you’re wearing a shorter skirt, you don’t have to wear a low cut top as well. It’s good to leave something to the imagination and leave him wanting more.

Think of it as giving him a taste, a little appetizer if you will, and whet his appetite for more.

In my opinion, the sexiest woman knows how to keep it simple when it comes to her clothes, so that they don’t distract from her beauty. Focus on shapes that are flattering and colors that look good on you. You can embellish with sexy jewelry that subtly draws the eye to your skin.

One of the things that is regularly associated with sexy clothing is lace, so adding a bit of it doesn’t hurt – even if it’s just some trim on a blouse.

Red is a powerful color when it comes to clothing. It is associated with passion and fire, and if you feel comfortable wearing it, go for it!

If you want to take it to the next level, you can wear a slightly sheer top. Remember, totally see-through moves away from subtle and leaving things to the imagination. Remain tasteful and spark his imagination. Pay attention to the fabrics that you’re wearing. Silks and linens are beautiful but can sometimes become unflattering because of the way they wrinkle and cling on the body. Heavier fabrics can be great because of the way they drape. If something is too bulky, you can always wear a belt around the waist. Though you shouldn’t show too much skin, you also don’t want to hide your body away under too many fabrics. You can be covered, but think about revealing some of your natural shapes.

Speaking of showing skin, think about what skin you want to show. Remember, men ARE visual creatures so you can use this to your advantage when you’re thinking about how to dress classy and sexy at the same time. There are certain things that you can do with your hair as well to draw the eye and signal confidence. For example, wearing your hair pulled away from your face.

Also, I think that shoulders are one of the sexiest things that women can show and they don’t get enough exposure. Off the shoulder sweaters are sexy and understated, so you can try that and balance it out by covering the legs.

Heels are always sexy. Simple dresses (think “little black dress”) are always sexy. Backless tops or dresses during dates are always enticing…

Think about what makes you feel sexy and confident, and let the clothes amplify your attitude.

What is sexy in the bedroom: The best things to wear for men and women


When things start to heat up, there are lots of other items of clothing to think about… Namely what you’re wearing underneath your clothes.

Each person and each person’s partner will of course have their own preferences, but I’ve compiled some suggestions below so that you may pick and choose what suits you best!

Wearing lingerie can make you feel incredibly sexy, even if it’s just knowing that you’ve got it on under your clothes. Not to mention, this translates into your attitude as well!

If you’re on a date and your goal is to wind up in the bedroom, make sure that whatever you’ve got on doesn’t take half an hour to take off. Though it might be sexy, if too much time is being spent on removing it, it could kill the mood.

If you’re already in a relationship, talk to your partner about what he thinks is sexy. Be lighthearted about it and make it exciting. Ask him what color and shape he likes when it comes to lingerie. Pay attention to what he compliments you on and what draws his attention.
Does he compliment you when you’re wearing heels? Does he especially like it when you’re in cotton panties? Play on what he likes and as you continue to get a reaction from him, you’ll feel sexier and sexier.

When it comes to lingerie, as with sexy clothes, when you’re selecting something sexy wear something that makes you feel good. Choose something that makes you feel confident. You could even bring your partner shopping with you, and tell that you’d like to buy something sexy for his eyes only.

Make sure you keep it fun!

Variety is important as well. Having a range of different sexy outfits and lingerie will keep catching his eye.

Perhaps you’ve been together for a while and you’re wondering how to be sexy for your husband. Maybe after all these years routine has settled in and you’re looking for a way to spice things up. Think of something you haven’t worn or done before… For example, you could even leave a lingerie catalogue out on the table with a little note that says, “You choose ;)”

How to be sexier: Avoid this

In reading this article I’m pretty sure you’ve already picked up on what you shouldn’t do if you want to work on being sexy

The biggest thing to avoid doing is making yourself uncomfortable.

If you hear that men think that heels are sexy, and you don’t like the way you feel in them, then you don’t have to wear them!

Try out different styles, while keeping in mind that you should focus on what looks best on your body. Don’t hesitate to ask your friends for their opinions on what looks good and what doesn’t.

If you’re not comfortable in what you’re wearing, even if you think it looks sexy, it’s going to show. Feeling comfortable is synonymous with feeling confident, so look for what makes you feel best!

Once again, I am very interested in your opinions on the subject of how to dress sexy, so please don’t hesitate to leave your comments below!


Your experts for knowing how to present yourself in the best light,

Alex Cormont & Christina


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    I stumbled across you by chance on you tube and thoroughly enjoy listening to you, naturally your accent is marvellous to listen to but also your enthusiasm is infectious and your advice seems so genuine and not forced, you seem to be a person very happy with life and in your own skin, it’s very gratifying to see i shall enjoy continuing to listen and read what you have to say 😊

    • Alex Cormont

      Hi Tami,
      I am so glad you stumbled into my you tube channel. Thank you for reading my blog and for your support. I appreciate your comment and you being here.

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