How to know a guy is interested: 10 Tips To Know He’s Interested!
How do you know if you should invest in a relationship with a guy if he never talks about his feelings or what he wants and needs? What tips and tools are there when you’re dating someone who is very reserved? How to know a guy is interested for sure and is not just playing with your emotions?
I want to thank the young woman who gave me the idea for this article, though she would prefer to remain anonymous. I understood her issue right away, because it is something I come across very often in my coaching sessions. People often ask me about how to know if a guy is interested or not. There is no sugarcoating it – we men have a frustrating tendency to shy away from communication, especially in the very beginning of relationship. This drives you nuts and fills your head with questions, with the most important one being, “Is he into me or not!?”
I’m going to answer all your questions in this article, but please don’t hesitate to tell me about your situation in the comment section below. I am here to respond to you.
Does it mean he’s not interested if he’s not talking about his feelings?
“I think I see signs he is interested but he never tells me how he feels…”
This is usually what goes through your mind when you are with a man who has trouble expressing himself. Though you shouldn’t automatically assume that he doesn’t have feelings for you simply because he hasn’t explicitly told you, it’s still a normal response.
When we take a look at today’s society, it’s clear that men are taught to keep their feelings to themselves, never talk about their emotions, never cry…etc. Men are taught this from a very young age. Little boys are told that crying is not very manly. The problem is that this idea develops with age, and the result is that many men have a mental block and think that communication makes them less of a man. In any case, this is how many men subconsciously feel about it. If you ask around you’ll quickly understand that men try to wiggle out of conversations in which they’re required to talk about their feelings.
That said, this does not mean that he is not interested in you. Men have a different way of showing their feelings for you. They prefer to communicate their attachment or love through concrete actions, and this should actually make you happy!
On a more serious note, you can see the main reason why men struggle with communication: They never had the right to talk about what they were feeling. And when they didn’t speak about their feelings, they were reprimanded or made fun of!
The other issue that we see here is that men often don’t feel comfortable enough to talk about their feelings, wants, and needs in relationships, even when they’re already in love! What’s more, when a guy opens up about his feelings he is often regarded as a smooth talker, or his behavior makes you pull away because you feel that things are moving too fast. He ends up not really wanting to express himself anymore, and this is one of the main reasons why it’s hard to know when a guy is interested in you.
So you’ve got two solutions…
The first option is to be patient so that you can make him feel at ease. Wait for him to feel more comfortable about sharing his feelings, wants and desires.
The second solution consists of using communication techniques like asking open-ended questions, reformulation, or cold reading. These are tools that you can learn over time either through a course in a specific domain like hypnosis, NLP (near-linguistic programming), or through coaching. These things require effort, especially if you want substantial results.
To summarize, I encourage you to be patient for now because my experience has shown me that if you can bring a positive element to the relationship, you should be able to make him feel at ease. The goal is to put yourself in his shoes so that you can get a better understanding of his behavior and his needs.
There are however some cases that are a little less common, and you have absolutely no idea what this man is thinking. It might even seem like his words don’t match his actions. So you don’t know if he’s happy being with you, and you keep thinking about how to tell if a guy is interested . You might even be wondering if he’s manipulating you…
How to know if he’s interested if he doesn’t talk about it…
Sometimes you come across a man that you find to be fascinating, and you quickly develop very strong emotions, but his words or actions don’t make it seem like he is invested in the relationship.
You are always the one to initiate conversation, to propose going out, and to become invested in the relationship. On top of that your partner seems to be
very nonchalant… so of course this will drive you crazy!
Rule number one under these circumstances is going to be to focusing on pulling back… there’s no sense in wasting your time on a person who gives you absolutely nothing and makes no effort. Your actions should be centered around the word “EFFORT.”
If it is in his nature to be distant but he’s still trying to make you happy, then you can build a solid relationship. On the other hand, if he does absolutely nothing for you, you will just end up being exhausted and this situation will leave a bad taste in your mouth. You’re going to have a jaded idea of men, and you’ll end up realizing that you’re investing in an impossible relationship.
Sometimes it’s better to suffer and then bounce back than to chase after something inaccessible and impossible for years. I encourage you to analyze this man’s attitude and ask yourself if he is sincerely trying to make you happy, or if he’s being selfish and does not care about your happiness.
Just be careful to avoid misunderstanding him. The fact that you two might communicate your feelings in different ways does not mean that he doesn’t have any for you or that he will never be able to satisfy you. Once again, if you want to be sure that he is interested in you, you have to get on the same page. He might be trying to make an effort but is not on the right track. It’s up to you to express how you need to be loved.
The # 1 tip to know if a guy is interested
10 Real Tips To Know When A Man Is Interested
#1 He calls you:
He isn’t afraid to pick up the phone every once and a while and discuss how your day is going and how you are doing. Especially the times when you are just getting to know eachother and start dating.
#2 He plans dates:
Even though I do believe men should plan the dates as you start dating I do think a woman should pitch in from time to time. With that said he will be talking about the next time you see eachother often and have some great things lined up as well as you should too! 🙂
#3 He respects you:
He honors you and is interested in understanding who you are so the both of you can get to know eachother on a much deeper level.
#4 He talks about the future with you:
Even though he may be planning dates he will also talk about how he wants you to meet his brother or some important people in his life like his best friend or even mother!
#5 He is open about what he wants
: A man that is not open about what he wants and what he’s looking for either it be a relationship or not should be able to tell you early on. I do think that the both of you have to connect more but at least you know what he is wanting from life and what stage he might be in. It’s always good to ask a man what he is looking for after the 1st or 2nd date.
#6 He makes you smile:
He is really focused on making you laugh and making you happy. So he says things that may brighten your day from time to time.
#7 He invites you to his activities
: Let’s say he is part of a soccer league he will start to invite you so you can see him play and see a part of his life and passion.
#8 He will send you cute text messages:
” Just thinking about you.”, “Hope you have a great day!”, “Good Morning Beautiful.”
#9 He starts to have deeper level conversations with you:
You start talking about values in a relationship what you need and want if you want kids, and possibly marriage.
#10 He says that he likes you and wants to make your relationship exclusive:
Not all men do this! But what happens is he may just start talking about your relationship and calling you his girlfriend. This I hear happens a lot and is a natural progression into a relationship.
How can he prove his feelings when a man is interested in you?
In getting a closer look at our social interactions, we can see that the principal role of a man is to protect his woman and their family. He won’t hesitate to be available whenever he is needed. This is something that proves how he feels and how invested he is. He will always work to meet your needs, and that is his way of saying he loves you!
Men communicate primarily through actions like giving you a gift or driving for hours just to come see you.
I encourage you to keep your eyes open for what he does for you, because words aren’t everything. A man can communicate his feelings through gestures as well. It’s up to you to pinpoint whether or not this man can meet your needs. Just remember, he needs to make an EFFORT! If he is invested, and you should be able to make a long-lasting and stable relationship.
I sincerely wish you the best,
Your coach for knowing how to tell if a guy is interested
Alex Cormont
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Thank you so much Jen for your support!
Great article! Thanks
Hi Charmaine,
Thank you for reading this blog. I’m so glad you found it helpful. You are so welcome. I’m so glad you are here.
Best,
Alex
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Regards Karen Sommerville
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Thanks, Precious! Happy you’re here and liked my blog.
I’m a single mom of two, I need to love again. I met this guy through his cousin, my friend, though, married. we became friends. I actually like him the first day I met him. Fortunately, he invited me to his place, and has been asking me to come and visit him. I did and since then has been visiting.
This made me broke my rule of spending nights in a man’s house. We actually make out anytime, I visited I love to be with him cos he makes me feel good and relieved emotionally.
However , I like being me and preserving my integrity, that I don’t want to loose it. I want to cut the rate at which I see him because I discovered that any time I come around all he wants and enjoys with me is sex more than any other thing.
I feel embarrassed and insecure whenever he displays such character. He doesn’t call or text me often as usual. The worst is that I feel him and want to be with him all the time, to the extent that I’m going crazy about him.
But I need to slow down, as I want a man who loves and cares for me and not just making out with me.
Please help me, I’m confused and I don’t want to be a sex slave to any man or be abandoned for whatever reason.
I love your blog and finds it helpful. Thanks a bunch Alex.
i really like the way you tell these things to women. i am a bad-tempered woman, small little things can ablaze with me. now you know what i mean 😁. it is a good thing that i met someone similar that we can challenge each other to counter-steering our bad temper.lol.
Hi Alex,
I would like to stay anonymous for now. I so many thoughts going through my head. I’ll with this one. What happens when you meet someone on facebook, but you get mix emotions, and you truly believes he is talking to you, by the way he is prestigious, but then you dont see him on you story page?
Great article! Please email me! I need your advice for my situation! Thank you
Hlo sir iam from India my boyfriend currently lives in United Kingdom iam always calling to him,msg to him .he said iam busy.but his phone is always engage .he is playing games with his classmates.he don’t have time talking with me.iam totally disturbed my studies totally disturbed I can’t able to focus on my studies.he always insult me.what should I do sir
Hi Bharani, the key to getting in control of the situation is to focus more on yourself. The busier you become, the better you will feel, and on top of that, you will give him the opportunity to miss you. Don’t let this man take you for granted!
Best,
Alex
All your articles are so much more interesting. Thank you for your coaching.
Thank you for being with us, Jane 🙂
Thank you sooo much for coaching relationship on this website
Hi Coach Alex,
I love your emails and videos. Your blog is also super helpful and informative!
Hi Heather,
I’m so happy to hear this and appreciate your comment! Thank you!
Best,
Alex
I always love reading from you Alex, and I’ve really learnt a lot from you expert.
Please continue teaching us about love. Like loving a married man. What happens?
Thank you. I would not recommend you dating and falling in love with a married man. Not at all.
Best,
Alex
Hi Alex you are just superb ..I read your article at the Right time..have been following you subscribing your article ..need to ask you some personal questions.. kindly help or how do I get your email…plz
Hi Heather, I am happy to have you here with us. Please don’t hesitate to get in touch with me by clicking here.
All my best,
Alex
Hi Alex. I watched all your vlogs and I love it… and am harini from India. My age is 16 and my boyfriend’s age is 26 .My question is me and my boyfriend were in one side love for 2 years and in 2020 March he proposed me and I accepted it with who heart.but now his family fixed engagement for him and he’s not being so close with me and he started to ignore me.i have a doubt that does our age difference matters here?is this true love ?are we allowed to pair up here?he’s not even glancing at me like before.he avoids me.will he leave me?plz answer my question Alex.
Hello. Thank you for your article I read every word! Please help me with my situation. I have been talking to this guy for 4 months now. He calls me every day texts me night and day updates me on his day. Yet he never plans dates. We have only met twice in these four months. I find myself drawn to him as we talk every day. But we are lacking that bonding time, dates. I have tried to tell him my free schedule and even suggest dates. Of which he is busy at work. I feel like dumping him then there he goes calling me again. He even says he loves me bUT wnot spend tI’m withe me. Help what to do
Hi Maambo, it sounds like he’s taking your availability to him for granted. If you can show him that you don’t always have time for him, he will begin to realize that he needs to fight for you and attract you if he wants your attention. That way, he’ll work harder to spend time with you.
Wishing you all the best,
Alex
You’re adorable! Humble and down to earth about such a scary world for us to navigate in. I’m a 61 year old widow of 5 years soon, and believe me, it’s scary for me. Thank you for your devotion to helping! I’m French norm too! Merci beaucoup Alex!
Andrea🌸
Hi Andrea,
I appreciate you! Thank you so much for this comment and thank you for reading my blog about how to know a guy is interested. I appreciate you!
Best,
Alex
Hello alex, its really a beautiful article, I’m a srilankan and I’m dating a french guy, we’ve been together for almost a year now, and i kept visiting him in france, and he will be visiting me next month in srilanka, he has introduced me to his family and friends and i already feel like I’m a part of his family, but Alex he never talks about marriage , when i try to talk about it he always says i never wanted to get married to anyone. But i said to him yes its possible to live together if i was french or if i was living in paris, but I’m not, and as a woman I’d like to have a little wedding and get married. But he wants more time to get to know each other more he says even after one year. I really dont know what should i do alex, please help me. I’ll be visiting paris soon.
Hello Alex thank you for such a great article. I need your help. Actually I am dating a guy from last 4 months we met online. We used to spend time with each other everything was going well. One day he didn’t message me so I asked him is there any problem. He said right now he is surrounded by many things so he needs some space and want to be alone for sometime. He said that he has not forgotten me and he will talk to me but now it’s more than 1 n half month and I haven’t heard from him. He also sees my Instagram stories. Please help me what should I do now.
Thank you Alex, for such sensible instructions and knowledge about the actions of men. I appreciate you for being open and helping us open our eyes to what needs to be done to make the (man) catch
Hi Dolores, I appreciate your support. Thank you!
Best,
Alex
You have got same views as mine
If he really loves you
He will respect you
Will take care of your thoughts
Will call you everyday to know if you are ok or not
Will plan out a romantic dinner
Hi there, I’m happy to hear it 🙂
Wishing you lots of success in love.
Best,
Alex
What would you think if a man says “I am always happy to see you because I enjoy your company”?
Hi Jessica,
Thank you for reading my blog, How to know a guy is interested. If you enjoy his company, tell him the same, because it sounds to me that he is interested in you.
Best,
Alex
Hi alex,
Thanks for this article and blog. I’ve been dating a man for 5months now. He always make plan for a date but we only meet up in his apartment, he never plan for dating or dining out.
We communicate everyday saying good morning,good night and how was ur day but I’m still confused much more every time I make some plans he always declined so I could not really understand what’s going on.
I try to talk to him about not going out, he answer me like, he’s not a type of man who’s going out except for going to gym. He would rather stay at home and watch Netflix then he was just ok but why if friends will invite him he can give time. Ooooh so please I could not really read his mind.
Thanks for reading my email.
Have a nice day !
Sincerely yours,
Daisy
Heyy… I still love my so does he but he doesn’t want to stay in this relationship anymore.. What should I do to get him back??
Wow if you don’t mind; reading and getting all these stuff, I think I’m soon becoming a genius, thank you u have really help me..
Hello alex, its really a very beautiful article. I’m a srilankan and I’m dating a french guy. We’ve been dating for almost a year now. I’ve been visiting paris a few times and he will be visiting me next time in srilanka, he has already introduced me to his family, and all his friends , and his family feels like mine too now. But the problem is alex he doesn’t talk about marraige. What he says is before he met me he never thought of signing a paper with anyone, but since I’m from a different country and if i wanna in france that he can consider it but he wants to give the realstionship more time. But i keep asking him how long more, I’m 31 this September and he is 34 . And we’ve been dating for a year, but he doesn’t talk about future plans which really worries me alex. I have no one in my life no family of my own, my both parents are dead. And i can’t understand if he really loves me why does he want to be away from me. I’ll be visiting paris soon Alex and I’d like to book a coaching session with you.
Regards jenny
Hi Navya, thanks for your question! If a guy says he loves you but doesn’t want to be in a relationship, you’re being taken for granted. The solution is to show him what he’s missing out on by creating the life you’ve always dreamed of. Also, put distance between you. That way he’ll realize that he’d be a fool to let you go.
Best,
Alex
My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago and says I don’t want to stay in relationship anymore because of his family issues but still he tells me that he still loves me….. I want him back what should I do!?? He looks at me daily in school…. He secretly stares,,…. But we aren’t talking to each other
Hi Navya,
Thank you for reading my blog. Give it some time. Stay busy and let him see that you are pursing you goals. Try not to be needy and clingy.
Best,
Alex
Hi Alex, how are you? I love your videos, they have been very helpful. I urgently need your help right now.
Thanks
Karen
Thank you for your videos, articles, and advice with men. They are interesting, informative, and concise. I have not been trained in NLP but received training in Narrative, solution-focused and behavioral therapies. Have a great day and thank you for your advice as a French relationship expert.
Hi Vicky,
Thank you for reading this blog. I’m glad you are here and I always welcome your comments. You have a great day.
Best,
Alex
I m from India, myself Doctor lekha ,der a guy named Rahul khurrana from my city,
Who was the one who send me frd requests on Instagram and propose me and we were in 9 month realtionship
It’s like I complaints against him coz he was doing wrong from past year, nd he was the one back of me …I raise voice in media against him coz I found around from people dat he is womenizer… And I find most things about him .
even his dad got to know about his dis matter , after dat …I dont know wht happened to me , rather staying away I told his cousin I help him nd give medical counseling nd meditation
He blocked me… Every where what’s app Facebook & Instagram even my call .
My intention was not to hurt him I want him to be good man,
But I dont y …I missing him badly…nd just few weeks from common frds got to know he went under surgery.i really want him back ,😔😔
After dat, send him get well soon cards and aologzi cards nd some flowers and 🍫 chocolate. I really love him want him back and marry him.😢
Your advices are 100% right but alex I think I am psycho but in my 31 years life I don’t like and attract any man without him who’s my teacher and unfortunately he’s married….but I will continue to watch videos….i like them all..thanks Alex for understanding every women…but my situation is really worrisome
Hi Zarmeen,
Thank you for reading the blog, How to know a guy is interested. I’m glad you are here. You need to work on changing your mindset so you can attract the relationship you deserve. You also deserve someone that is available to you.
Best,
Alex
Is it possible to date two man at the same time? Pls help me
Bonjour Sir . kind thanks for ur interesting n most discussed article “how to tell if a guy is interested”..It’s true that society have made relations complicated.The question like I’d a reserved man is interested , investing in a relationship if he doesn’t talk ,not playing with emotions ?!!r common..the fact is conciouly n subconsciously we all know what we want n need in relationship . Even the most quite man will verbally open up to his lady if he is truly in her n don’t want to play with her emotions .Man may not like communication but it is for his lady only.
Patience is required but to certain limit ,as we can’t sit back n wait else other one may pull back .Some little words can do wonders .To analyze the role of communication n efforts can’t be ignored .
. If one is putting all the efforts ,it cud lead to one sided relationship . Efforts is accepting each other in totality wid+ve n -ve points..The efforts are always acknowledge that they are valued ,care to be happy wid each other.To b respectful n courteous shows worth as do Please n Thank you shows appreciation for who they are n what they are doing in life.
Sir I can’t say anything about myself as I’m not in a relationship ,but I like to share my thoughts n ideas with you .seeds of trust in relationship is a growth of best future .I hope you like the matter .and please let me know if there is anything wrong I said n what u would like to say about it.Thanks sir once again . looking forward to ur reply n messages . Always stay blessed n keep your dates wid happiness n success . lots of regards .
You’re just amazing at your job. It’s really helpful. Though would need some more tips as my boyfriend stays abroad while am in Nigeria. Thanks so much
Hi Alex
I’m tawi from Indonesia
I have man.. we always have dating every 2 week stay in hotel sometimes going out togethers.. we know each other 3 years but long time we not meet.. then we meet 3 months ago… starting for dating.. actually I love him.. but he never told me about he feelings to me.. then he not always call or chat me.. he chat me when we will meet.. please tell me what should I do.. sometime I feels he just play with me….waiting forwards for your reply … thanks alex .. god bless you 🙏
Hi Alex,
Your website is amazing and your coaching just brilliant.
I wish I had this tools years ago😢
Better late than never!
Keep it up!
Hi Alex,
From Australia
Your website is amazing and your coaching just brilliant.
I wish I had this tools years ago😢
Better late than never!
Keep it up!
Hi Marta, welcome!
I’m so glad you’re here now. Wishing you lots of success in love!
Best,
Alex
I just somehow came across your video on YouTube and happened to watch it and it was interesting,knowing I need to watch and read more of your blogs..
I find it so interesting and I know it will help me alot..
Thank you
Alex..
Hi Lilly, thanks so much for your message. Very happy to have you with us 🙂
Best,
Alex
Hi Alex
Just came across your blog and You tube channel yesterday 8/6/2020. I found it a breath of fresh air. I have been watching several relationship coaches lately and found the message the same but the delivery very different
I found your delivery very clear , emphatic and right to the point,, much to the extent that the advice stays with those of us watching you. You are also very encouraging and inspiring and a joy to listen to. Please do keep up the good work, you are having a lot of impact than you are aware of, great service to a lot of women. We are utmost grateful
Hi there, thanks so much for this kind message. I am so glad that what I love to do has had a positive effect on you. I’m so happy to have you as part of our community! 🙂
All my best,
Alex
I know a guy on 31 May 2020. We communicated & enjoyed with each other presence. He drove to my house on the first day of our communication. We had a very open heart chat in his car.
From the conversation, we find so many similarities, ie. birthday on the same month, like the same kind of food, we had an unhappy past, etc.
He asked me to become his girlfriend on our first meet up. We agreed to give love a chance. He had been giving me lots of surprises to make me very happy. When I thought he is the one for me, something happen to make us drift apart.
He started to be cold & never contact me 1 week later. Initially he claimed that his work schedule was busy & lots of excuses of not communicating with me. We were in such situation for a week.
I started to text him on last Friday, 12 Jun, to ask if we are over? What has happened to us? We have no argument in between, & he was just treated me coldly without any communication.
His reply to me was just asked me to take care & said “I am sorry…”. He required to travel abroad due to family issues. When I asked him to explain further, he just keep silence & never reply anymore.
My heart break & my mind is full of doubts. Why things have turned out like that.
The happy memories he left me is just last a week. I am trying to bring myself back, release the disappointment & move on with my life.
Hi Bel, for now you have to focus on yourself and putting distance between you and this man. He has taken you for granted and you made him understand that you were available to him. If you can take him off the pedestal and switch your focus to your life, your personal goals, your professional goals, physical and emotional health, and your social circle, he will understand that you live a life that he would want to be a part of. Use social media to share images of the life you’re living, but for now, put space between you and let him come to you. Please reach out for coaching if you would like a detailed action plan!
I’m vimmi Veronica paul from India I just can’t understand why my lover is ignoring me please help me and guide me on right way
Hello there, please don’t hesitate to reach out for one on one coaching by clicking here.
Best,
Alex
Hi Alex. I’ve been kind of dating a man for almost a year and a half now. Kind of because we are in a long distance relationship. He lives in Germany and I live in spain. We have been meeting all this time having great moments and creating memories. The problem began a couple of months ago. When this virus situation started. He has begun more and more distant slowly at the beginning but now we move to texts every day to texts every two to four days. Sometimes he doesn’t even reply to me. I must say I normally never ever text him first, I always wait for him to initiate conversations nowadays I sometimes do because of his lack of interest to the point I sometimes think he feels obligated to do so. Don’t know what to do anymore, this is causing me lots of pain and resentment because if he could just explain to me what’s going on will give me some assurance. Please tell me what to do? I try to always keep positive and fIll my life in order to keep busy myself but I do miss him very much. Thanks Alex really appreciate your answer.
Hello Marigaby, thank you for sharing your story. It would appear that this man is taking you for granted, so now your focus must switch to making your personal life better than ever before. When he realizes he’s been taken off the pedestal, he will change is approach. Please don’t hesitate to reach out for one on one coaching by clicking here.
Best,
Alex
I will really appreciate it if you can help me! Needed some advice
Hi RK,
Please don’t hesitate to reach out for private coaching, and it would be my pleasure to help you.
Best,
Alex
Sir can u give me advice about same gender relationship
Hi Aryan,
Sure! Please don’t hesitate to reach out for one on one coaching by clicking here.
Best,
Alex
Thanks Alex this my first time of reading your article and I ended it please I need your help l always have disappointment in my relationship, but am into another one and I want it to end well please what will I do. Thanks sir
Dear Alex,
I watched all of your videos, but cannot find an answer to my problem. Could you please help me out?
I’ve been dating a guy in person for 4.5 months before corona hit us. All was great, he seemed to be very much in love, wanted to live with me, chemistry was insane. We texted 24/7 too, were each other’s best friend. Then he was asked to work from home till January. He subleased his apartment and moved back to a different state with his mom. After a month he started writing less, saying he was busy with work, not texting for a day or two, but always initiated. In July he didn’t write for 9 days, but wrote first again. That was the last time he wrote he loved me and the last time we talked on the phone. Last month I was the only one always initiating, he stopped asking me questions, didn’t react to my questions about love or would answer with unrelated gifs. He would be stopping texting saying he had a headache, lymph nodes pain, wouldn’t answer my phone being busy with his mom… In October he would text he wasn’t even on his phone for being busy. Yet I found out hewas on snapchat. I got very upset, removed him from friends, he requested a friendship immediately, I blocked him and deactivated my messenger account. I came back after 2 weeks asking why he stopped loving me and if he only used me for intimacy. I also explained my disappearance. He reacted by blocking me on snapchat and never wrote to me again, although he read those messages. It’s been a month. I’m hurt, confused and still love him. I have no idea what happened. Our relationship was serious. And I just read his company is extending work from home till March… What should I do? How to get him back? Did I chase him away by asking him every week what was wrong and if he still loved me? He said yes mid October.
Please how can I search you on email?
I want you to coach me on my relationship, it’s urgent please
Hi