How to make a man chase you: Everything you need to know!
When it comes to dating and relationships, one of the most important things to master is the art of making a man chase you, and not being the one who’s chasing after him! Every single day I get calls and emails from people that want to know how to attract someone and I always start by explaining this simple concept. Instead of focusing on what you can do to please him, we need to take a look at what you can do in your own life that makes him see you in a new light.
This is how to make a man chase you. Fortunately, you’re reading this article so you are already on the right track! I am going to give you three tips that will make him chase you and transform your love life for good! There are so many solutions available to you and before you know it, this man won’t be able to get enough of you.
So, what do you say, ladies? Are you ready to make this man fight for you? Then, let’s get started!
How to make a man chase you and value you more
In the majority of cases, when a person starts to fall in love with a man, she’ll start to wonder, “What can I do to make this guy want me? How can I make him fall in love with me? What do I need to do?” When you do this, you immediately put yourself in a position of weaker power and you run the risk of becoming needy or clingy. You wind up bending over backward, giving him way too much, and then you end up in a one-sided relationship where you are taken for granted. As you can imagine, this is the exact opposite of what we want!
As a love and relationship coach that has worked with over 30,000 women all over the world since 2007, I can confidently tell you what works when you want to make a man chase you, and what doesn’t. If you can follow the tips I am about to give you (and don’t worry, they’re pretty easy to incorporate into your life), then you will change your love life once and for all!
Make him chase you forever: The key to success
My friends, if you want to make this man chase you, if you want to make this man really fight for you, then you need to make sure that he begins to see you as a challenge again. The first thing that you can do is set your phone aside and get it out of sight. I know it’s a nice feeling to be in love because it’s all so exciting, but one of the things that happen is that you start to fixate on your phone. You’ll inadvertently keep looking at WhatsApp to see when he was last online, you’ll reread your last text exchanges and try to analyze what he’s feeling, you’ll look at his Instagram and notice that three other girls commented on his picture, so you’ll start to wonder if he’s playing the field, or maybe even whether he’s cheating on you… and you’ll end up driving yourself nuts for no reason!
So, again, we need to make sure that this guy chases you, and the first step is to stop fixating on what he’s up to and being in contact with him. This is especially important if you’re reading this article because you want to know how to get a guy to chase you after you chased him!
How to get him to chase you in a relationship or when you’re dating: Step #2
The next tip I have for you in this mini action plan is to make sure that you have your OWN things going on. It’s important for this man to see that you’ve got your own life, passions, hobbies, friends, and activities going on and that you’re genuinely enjoying life. Go ahead and grab a calendar for the exercise I have for you. I would like you to plan out activities for yourself over the next ten weeks and get busy! Do things on your own and do things with your best friends.
Make sure you focus on professional goals as well because when you start to attain these types of objectives, you’re going to start to feel way better in your life. I always remind my clients that self-confidence comes from a sense of accomplishment. So give yourself short, medium, and long-term goals and start working on them starting today. Where would you like to be professionally speaking two years from now? To reach this goal, where would you need to be one year from now? What about six months from now? Two months from now?
To reach where you’d need to be two months from now, what can you start doing this week?
So it’s time to get started! As I was saying, the more you accomplish, the more confident you will become, and the more attracted to you this guy will become.
Make HIM chase YOU: Not the other way around!
The third tip I have for you is to challenge yourself to do something new every single week. When you have fun and experience something new, you are sending dopamine to your brain and this is great. You’ve probably heard of it before but just in case you haven’t, it’s basically the happiness hormone. What’s more, the happier you are, the easier it will be to make this man want to pursue you.
So my friends, make sure you’re doing things for yourself, that you’re busy, and that you’re inviting new things into your life. The moment this guy realizes that you’re not focusing on him and that you’re living a life that he’d be a fool to not want to be a part of, he’s going to realize what he stands to lose. This is how to make a man chase you! I should also mention that it will make it natural and easy for you to take your time in responding to him because you’ll be genuinely busy. A man enjoys the chase, he wants you to be a challenge! He doesn’t want you to be readily available to him at his beck and call, because then it makes it easy for him to take you for granted.
So it’s not about playing hard to get; it’s about living a life that is so filled with joy that it becomes easy for you to take him off the pedestal and make him realize that he needs to step up.
And ladies, don’t forget to be fun and playful when you are interacting. Keep things fresh and positive because we want him to associate you with positive emotions. As human beings, when we enjoy something, we keep coming back for more. This works whether you’ve been with a person for 25 years, or if you’ve just started dating!
You’ve got this 🙂
I sincerely wish you all the best in life and love!
Your French relationship coach,